I forgot to post this - A family at the NICU who we had become friends with was very surprised last night to see us back. He joked with us that we had lost our seniority by going home and coming back and that they were now the family in the NICU the longest. Greg told him that once you hit 120 days, you get tenure and you don't lose seniority!! We all had a good laugh!
We all get to be a big family through this experience and it's nice to know that we can sometimes still have a sense of humor about it all!!